Never Have I Ever: Fabiola Torres – Type 5w6

Fabiola is intelligent, reserved, quirky and quiet. She prefers to deal with situations using fact and logic and is less likely to have an overemotional reaction. Fabiola tries not to get involved in conflict and generally keeps to herself. She also prefers to be in the background and allows others (like Devi) to take the lead in social situations.

Fabiola also has elements of a 1w9 as they can also present as being disconnected from their feelings. Additionally, she was very afraid to tell her parents about her sexuality as she didn’t want them to react badly. However, I think she cares more about gaining knowledge than doing the right thing.

At her best, she is engaged in her friendships and becomes more open to new experiences, like her relationship with Eve. She is also able to move past her problems with Devi and help her with her problems.

At her worst, she publicly lashes out at Devi, and cuts off contact from her. Some of her outburst was justified, as Devi was being very inconsiderate and rude to her friends, however, Fabiola becomes withdrawn from the relationship completely.

5s are very focused in their inner world and they are very withdrawn. Fabiola much prefers to be making her robots than being out at parties. She has very close friendships with Devi and Eleanor and is very considerate and thoughtful of them. For example, she helps Eleanor when she finds out about her mother living in LA, and when her mother leaves her again.

As 5s can be disconnected from their feelings, it took Fabiola a bit of time to realise her feelings for Eve and to act upon them. Additionally, she felt more comfortable coming out to her robot, than her friends, showing that she sometimes prefers technology to people.

She shows her wing 6 as she is very loyal to her friends and doesn’t care as much about creativity and being unique.

Tri-type: 5w6 – 1w9 – 2w1

Some quotes to describe Fabiola’s motivations

“One day, you will walk again. If not, I will build you legs.”

“We are smart. And idiots are banging all the time. We can learn how to do it, too.”

“I left a funeral to be by your side after Nick Jonas married an Indian woman that wasn’t you.”

“What I want to say is, I am… I am… I am switching from French to an AP lab this year”

“They don’t know that I’m gay.”

Glee: Finn Hudson – Type 9w1

Type 9s are known as the peacemakers and are friendly, kind and indecisive. Type 9s have the basic desire to be comfortable and at inner peace. They do not want to disturb anything around them in order to keep this feeling of peace. Type 9s also have a fear of separation and being at conflict with others. As they fear conflict they will often silence their wants and needs to go along with the opinions of others as a means to keep the peace.

Finn is relaxed, insecure and friendly. Despite being the star of the football team he is not overtly confident or outgoing. He has a habit of going with the flow and following the lead of others. An example of this is when he slushies Rachel based on the advice and consensus of the football team, rather than his own personal feelings.

Finn also puts a great emphasis on the perception of others and their opinions of him. He falls into the role of being the popular kid and the football star and he is very reluctant to do anything that would jeopardise this. This can be seen when he is asked to join the Glee club and he is very hesitant to do so- even outright refusing. It is only when he is given an ultimatum by Mr Schuester that he joins as a way of appeasing him. However, he starts to show growth when he accepts that Glee Club is something he is passionate about and enjoys despite what other people think.

Along with this Finn is shown to be very indecisive and unaware of his own feeling and desires. He finds it very challenging at the end of high school when his friends are planning and moving towards their dream jobs or educations. He also shows this through his uncertainty of wanting to be with Rachel.

At his best, Finn becomes more accepting, trusting and motivated to achieve his goals. He begins to see a calling as a Glee Teacher and decides to mentor the Glee club and gains much more direction and purpose with his life. At his worst, Finn becomes passive aggressive, anxious and cruel. His treatment of Kurt when they become stepbrothers and he called him a gay slur is an example of a time when he was inconsiderate, rude and mean.

In his relationship wth Rachel, Finn can often feel like he is not enough as she is such a large personality with very lofty goals. This is an area that they clash on as Finn believes it would be better to let Rachel go and pursue her dreams rather than continuing their relationship. While, this is difficult, Rachel also pushes Finn to become more confident, ambitious and certain of what he wants to do in his own life. They compliment each other well as she provides encouragement and drive towards Finn and he is more level-headed and supportive of her.

Finn has a wing 1 as he is concerned with his principles, is generally more reserved and wants to do the right thing. He shows that he is willing to stand up for people when he helps Kurt after he was thrown into the dumpster.

Finn’s Tritype- 9w1-6w7-2w1

Some quotes to describe Finn’s motivations:

“Don’t you get it, man? We’re all losers. Everyone in this school! Hell, everyone in this town. Out of all the kids who graduate, maybe half will go to college, and two will leave the state to do it! I’m not afraid to be called a loser because I can accept that’s what I am. But I am afraid of turning my back on something that actually made me happy for the first time in my sorry life.”

“Well, when I first joined, I thought you were kind of insane. I mean, you talk way more than you should and to be honest, I looked under the bed to see if you were hiding there. But…then I heard you sing and you touched something in me.”

“I know I’m a big athlete and it’s not manly or anything, but I’m kinda insecure about how I look.”

“ Wow. What am I going to do with my life? I don’t have my girl. I don’t have a job. I don’t have a place in this world.“

“ I…I didn’t have a father. Someone I could model myself after. Show me what it really means to be a man.”

“The truth is, I have no idea what I’m doing. I look around and everyone know’s where they’re headed or at least what they want. I’m lost. It’s like I can’t even remember who I am anymore.”

Marley: “You’re a natural leader, Finn. A teacher. You don’t need Mr. Shue’s approval to be that.”
Finn: “Yeah, but I do need a little thing called a teaching degree.”
Marley: “So, go get one”

Glee: Rachel Berry- Type 3w4

Rachel is competitive, intense and talented. Her whole character is searching for ways to become a star and achieve her dream of being on Broadway. She sees Glee club as another avenue for her to prepare and fine tune her talents on the way to becoming famous.

At her best, Rachel becomes more supportive, friendly and selfless. As she starts to bond with the Glee club she begins to cooperate more with the other Glee club kids and realises that she doesn’t always have to be the star of the group.

At her worst, Rachel becomes selfish, untrustworthy and will do anything to achieve her goal. An example of this is when she is threatened by Sunshine and gives her the wrong information for the location of auditions to stop the rest of Glee club from hearing her. She is very self-serving and has little regard for the safety of Sunshine as long as she will be out of the way so that Rachel will have less competition for solos in Glee club.

At first Rachel seems to idealize Finn as she saw him as the popular “cool” guy and thought he would be the perfect leading man to accompany her as leading lady. However, as they started to get to know each other more she saw him for much more than that. Through her relationship with Finn there are examples of Rachel’s positive and negative behaviours. She can be possessive, controlling and tries to show Finn off at times. But she also showed times where she put Finn first, was much more caring towards him and showed that she genuinely loved him.

Rachel is a very strong-willed and determined individual. However, at times she tries to impress others and this can be through changing some of her outward appearance and personality to present as more likeable. She looked up to Quinn as she was the most popular girl in school and wanted to befriend her. She valued Quinn’s opinions and when Quinn told her she shouldn’t change herself and get plastic surgery, she listened. When she first started dating Finn she was very insecure about his past relationship with Quinn because she thought she was the prettiest and most popular girl in school.

Due to Rachel’s strong desire for success, fame and to be the best, she also has a very deep fear of failure. When Rachel chooses to leave her studies in order to try and film a TV pilot which ends up failing, she becomes depressed and unmotivated. She takes this failure to heart and is afraid of chasing her dreams anymore. 

Tri-type: 3w4 – 1w2 – 6w7

Quotes to describe Rachel’s motivations:

“Look, I know what I’m talking about! I won my first dance competition when I was three months old!”

“You may laugh because every time I sign my name I put a gold star after it, but it’s a metaphor, and metaphors are important. My gold stars are a metaphor for ME being a star.”

“We all have pressures, but you know how I deal with it? The natural way, with a rigorous diet and exercise routine. I’m up at 6:00 AM every day, I have my protein shake with banana and flaxseed oil, and by 6:10 I’m on the elliptical. You know how I motivate myself? Not with anything artificial, I set a goal and I won’t rest until I reach it.”

“School pictures are everything to me. They’re great practice for the paparazzi.”

 “You might think that all the boys in school would totally want to tap this, but my Myspace schedule keeps me way too busy to date.”

“I think the rest of the team expects us to become an item. You, the hot, male lead, and me, the stunning, young ingenue everyone roots for.”

“Nowadays being anonymous is worse than being poor. Fame is the most important thing in our culture today, and if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that nobody’s just going to hand it to you.”

“I know being my boyfriend is a challenge. I’m not Quinn. I’m not pretty like her, I’m not popular and my personality, though exciting and full of surprises, isn’t exactly low-maintenance.”

Never Have I Ever: Devi Vishwakumar – Type 6w7

Devi is responsible, nervous, and insecure. She tries to portray herself as confident, but she is very insecure in many aspects of her life. Devi is very sarcastic and often uses humour to mask her real emotions.

Throughout the series, Devi is disintegrating to 3 as she is in the lower levels of health. After her father’s death and her temporary paralysis, she felt she was the laughingstock of the school, so she wanted to be popular. So, she can come across a bit like a 3 as she is very concerned with her image and status in high school.

At her worst, she becomes panicky, volatile and is prone to outbursts of anger due to her anxiety. She alienates most of her friends and family through this behaviour and begins to have a mentality of “I don’t need anybody, I only trust myself.”

At her best, she begins to deal with the consequences of her father’s death and tries to mend her relationships with her friends and family. She also begins to stop caring so much about what other people think.

Devi is mostly compliant towards her parent’s wishes, as she is an Honours student and participated in all the extracurriculars (like the harp) that they told her to do. However, she is beginning to defy her mother’s wishes, as she doesn’t want to be controlled by her and wants to have more freedom. 6s often have complicated relationships with authority, and will sometimes push back against it if they feel it isn’t right.

Her relationships with her friends help her to be less insecure and calmer. Fabiola and Eleanor are her best friends, and she really values her friendships with them. However, she is inconsiderate of their feelings when she chooses Paxton over them, leading to conflict. She realises how important they are to her and starts to be more caring towards them.

6s often have mixed feelings about different things and people. Devi is conflicted between Ben and Paxton and doesn’t know exactly what she wants. She has always had a crush on Paxton, and he is the most popular guy in school. Whereas, she has always known Ben as a rival, until she sees a different side of him.

Tri-type: 6w7 – 3w4 – 1w2

Some quotes to describe Devi’s motivation:

“If women didn’t accept each other’s apologies, The View would grind to a halt.”

“I’m a delight! I should punch you in the Adam’s Apple for saying that.”

“Winning over old-ass teacher types is my superpower.”

“I’d like to be invited to a party with alcohol and hard drugs. I’m not gonna do them, I’d just like the opportunity to say, “No cocaine for me, thanks. I’m good.”

“Hey gods, it’s Devi Vishwakumar, your favorite Hindu girl in the San Fernando Valley. What’s a-poppin’?”

“I don’t negotiate with terrorists, Ben. And honestly, I’m mature enough to be on my own. Now, if you’ll excuse me, I’m gonna Google how to buy a credit card.”

Scandal: Huck – Type 6w5

Huck is paranoid, reliable, and extremely loyal to Olivia and the Gladiators. Huck has experienced a lot of trauma, so he is in the lower levels of health. As he is in the lower levels of health, he exhibits many of the bad traits of 6s, such as paranoia, aggressiveness, and neuroticism.

At his best, Huck will do anything for the people he loves and begins to become less panicky and manic. For example, he is extremely loyal towards Olivia, and he will do anything in his power to keep her safe. When Olivia is kidnapped, he works tirelessly to save her, as he has on many other occasions.

At his worst, he is aggressive, violent, and unpredictable. There have been many instances throughout the series, where Huck relishes hurting other people and becomes unhinged.

Huck is very focused on authority figures, and often followed the orders of his superiors, even when they were immoral. As a B6-13 agent, he had to do many bad things, however, he wasn’t able to stand up for himself, instead he complied with their orders.

When he leaves B6-13, he is terrified for the safety of his family, and he decides that it is better for him to distance himself from them because it isn’t safe. However, he really wants a relationship with his family as it was the only place he felt at home. So, he decides he will testify against B6-13 once and for all, so that he can ensure the safety of his family.

It takes a while for Huck to let people in as he doesn’t trust easily, like a typical 6. He also keeps secrets from the other Gladiators, especially Quinn as he doesn’t want to put them in danger, and he doesn’t know if they can be trusted.

I think he has more of a 5 wing as he is very withdrawn and is less overtly anxious than a wing 7. He often investigates and observes, before acting to ensure he has the best course of action, although sometimes he can be impulsive.

Tri-type: 6w5 – 4w5 – 9w8

Some quotes to explain Huck’s motivations

“He’s a normal person, Quinn. We have to protect him. We can’t let him be friends with us.”

“I pulled your teeth out because you couldn’t mind your own business. You can never mind your own business, Quinn. And if I had to do it all again to teach you that one valuable lesson, I would.”

“Do you have any idea how many times you’ve asked me to do things that I didn’t want to do but I did them because you asked me to? B613 took away my family, Liv, my life, my name. They destroyed me.”

[to Olivia] “I was pretty sure somebody hacked you into pieces and burned your body. I’m really glad that’s not true.”

Olivia: “Have you been waiting for me to come home? Am I your plan?”
Huck: “You always fix me.” 

Parks and Recreation: Ron Swanson – Type 8w9

Ron is blunt, smart and emotionally detached He prefers to be alone and often finds the demands of others to be pointless, which is why he often ignores citizen requests and allows Leslie to jump in and solve their problems. He is reluctant to show his true feelings to others and as a way of avoiding personal conversations, stays hidden away in his own office.

At his best, Ron becomes more open and receptive of the feelings of others. His relationship with April shows growth as he appreciates her and in his own way tries to be supportive of her and Andy. At his worst, Ron is rude and aggressive. He makes it very clear to others that he thinks they are not worth his time.

Ron is extremely closed off and private, so he doesn’t readily share aspects of his personal life and upbringing with his coworkers. However, it can be seen that he had an interesting childhood and was expected to act maturely and work from a very young age. Due to this he has taken on a mentality that he needs to be self-sufficient and he doesn’t want to rely on anyone else for anything. He likes to be in control of himself and others as can be seen from his managerial style.

Ron has a number of strong qualities of type 5 including his introversion and need for privacy. However, I think that he is more concerned with being self-sufficient and strong than with finding knowledge and appearing useful and competent. It can be seen through his interactions with others that he is more of an 8 as he respects people who are self-made, despises weak people or entitled people and is not concerned with how others view how he does his job. 

Ron has many hidden talents that he is reluctant to share with his coworkers as he feels this will make them see him differently. He is a relatively well-known Jazz artist (Duke Silver) but hides this from the people he works with as he thinks they will see him as being less masculine and strong. When April finds out about it, it becomes a secret that they share and strengthens the bond between the two of them.

Despite being very forthright and unafraid of telling people what he thinks of them, Ron has a very interesting dynamic with the women in his life. When his mother and Ex-wife Tammy are shown through the series, it can be seen that Ron seeks their approval, even though he knows they are unhealthy for him. This is because he reverts back to a time when he was a child and wasn’t in control.

Ron has a 9 wing as he is much more withdrawn, introspective and seeks the pleasures of comforts such as woodworking and food.

Tri-type: 8w9 – 5w4 – 3w4

Some quotes to describe Ron’s motivation:

“Fishing relaxes me. It’s like yoga, except I still get to kill something.”

“Deal with your problems yourselves, like adults.”

“The less I know about other people’s affairs, the happier I am. I’m not interested in caring about people. I once worked with a guy for three years and never learned his name. Best friend I ever had. We still never talk sometimes.”

“When I eat, it is the food that is scared.”

“Second there’s only three ways to motive people: money, fear and hunger.”

“Under my tutelage, you will grow from boys to men. From men into gladiators. And from gladiators into Swansons.”

“I’ve cried twice in my life. Once when I was 7 and hit by a school bus. And then again when I heard that Li’l Sebastian had passed.”

“When people get too chummy with me, I like to call them by the wrong name to let them know I don’t really care about them.”

“I’d wish you the best of luck but I believe luck is a concept created by the weak to explain their failures.”

“My idea of a perfect government is one guy who sits in a small room at a desk, and the only thing he’s allowed to decide is who to nuke. The man is chosen based on some kind of IQ test, and maybe also a physical tournament, like a decathlon. And women are brought to him, maybe… when he desires them.”

Dead to Me: Steve Wood – Type 3w2

Steve is charming, ambitious and selfish. He is a go-getter and places a great emphasis on his career and being rich and successful. Steve wants to be the best and tries to show this to others through his expensive and lavish cars, properties and overall attitude.  When his family is introduced it is shown that Steve was aways the golden boy of the family. He was put on a pedestal for his whole life which explains much of his behaviour earlier in the series and his over inflated ego.

At his best, Steve shows a more caring side towards Judy and begins to take her feeling into account. He tries to be more understanding and empathetic to her pain about the miscarriages and wants to support her. At his worst, Steve is self-involved, deceitful and cruel. This can be seen with how he handles the situation with hitting Ted and influences Judy to cover up the crime.

Steve seems to portray himself in a certain way to impress others and gain their admiration. When he meets Jen he is very friendly and arrogant as he is boasting about his accolades. And trying to charm her. However, it can be seen later in the series that he has been making a lot of underhanded deals and corrupt partnerships in order to create his wealth.

In his relationship with Judy we can see he has moments of his true feelings but he will often mask them. Steve is quite good at repressing his emotions. It is only when he is really threatened with losing his status that he will become angry, aggressive and confrontational. This can be seen when he is desperately looking for Judy after she has turned him into the police for money laundering.

Steve handles his guilt of being in the car with Judy that hit Ted very differently than Judy does. He is content with pretending that nothing has happened as a way of preserving his own lively hood and protecting himself. He appears to move on and go back to his daily life very quickly and advises Judy to do the same.

Steve has a strong wing 2 as he is very people-focussed and will be more inclined to help others to achieve his goals. He is less introspective than a wing 4 and much more extroverted.

Tri-type: 3w2 – 7w8 – 8w7

Some quotes to describe Steve’s motivations:
“You have no idea how I looked at my Grandmother, she was a very handsome woman.”

“I really hope that this new guy knows how to take care of you.”

“What kind of friendship is based on lies? And manslaughter?”

Judy: “Well, Steve has a very specific aesthetic.”
Jen: “What? Modern douche?”

Jen about Steve: "He’s the worst kind of d**k, because he’s like a secret d**k.”

Scandal: Fitzgerald Grant – Type 9w1

Fitz is mostly peaceful, calm and is able to see multiple perspectives in a variety of situations. Fitz desperately wants to have a normal life with Olivia and he doesn’t like the power that comes with being President.

At his best, he is able to effectively integrate into 3 and become more driven and a better leader for the US. He also becomes less dependent on his relationship with Olivia and begins to become more independent and decisive.

At his worst, he become paranoid, aggressive and afraid Olivia is going to leave him, as he disintegrated into 6. He often lashes out against Mellie as he feels like she is an obstacle in his relationship with Olivia. He also becomes very jealous of Jake and his relationship with Olivia, as he is very attached to her.

Fitz has many qualities of a 4, as he is very focused on his relationship with Olivia and believes she is the perfect partner. However, sx 9s can present like 4s as they are very concerned with finding the perfect partner.

9s are often very influenced by others in making decisions. Fitz is always asking the opinions of Cyrus, Olivia and even Mellie on issues pertaining to the White House. However, on certain issues, he can become very stubborn and will not listen to reason. For example, when Olivia was kidnapped, he went to war with West Angola, despite the advice of his staff, and he forbade the CIA to kill Olivia, even if she was taken by one of the US’ greatest enemies.

Fitz has an effortless charm about him, that 9s often exhibit. He is a very popular President, as he is very easy-going and is able to appeal to the public. He can change his personality to appeal to wide variety of people, which is common among 9s, as they instinctively know what other people want and meld to that.

His relationship with Olivia helps him to become more principled and take a stance on certain issues. He becomes more content with himself, and stops trying to change himself depending on what others want from him.

He has a strong wing 1 as he is very concerned about doing the right thing. He is also very idealistic and wants to be a good President.

Tri-type: 9w1 – 4w3 – 6w7

Some quotes to explain Fitz’s motivations

“My whole life is you. I can’t breathe because I’m waiting for you. You own me, you control me, I belong to you.”

“It’s me. I know you said not to call but I just wanted you to know…I get it. All this time I’ve been waiting to hear from you so you could tell me what you wanted, but it’s what you don’t want, isn’t it? You don’t want this. I’m going to deny Sally’s story and bring Mellie back to the White House because I don’t want you to throw away your whole life just for me. I love you too much for that.”

“I fell in love. Susan, I’m a flawed person, just like anyone else.”

“Somewhere, in another life, another reality, we are married and we have four kids, and we live in Vermont, and I’m the mayor”

(To Olivia) “Do not tell me what I have to do. You don’t get to do that anymore.”

Hi have you done Gine Linetti from Brooklyn 99? I’m curious about that one

Hi Anon, 

Thanks for your request, Gina was really hard for me to type because she has strong elements of 3 and 4, but I settled on 3.

Gina Linetti – Type 3w4

Gina is narcissistic, over-the-top, and genuinely thinks she is better than everyone else. She loves to brag about how amazing she is and constantly puts herself above other people.

Gina has a very strong wing 4, and I was debating typing her as a 4w3 instead, as she has strong qualities of a 4. However, I think overall she is very focused on projecting herself as the best to others, rather than being unique. Although she is very over-dramatic, quirky and creative, I think that at her core she cares more about being the best than being unique. As both 3s and 4s are in the image triad it can be hard to distinguish between them.

At her best, Gina becomes more open to the people around her and begins to stop putting others down. She also begins to realise that being the best isn’t everything, and that her friendships matter more. When she becomes a mother, she realises that there are some things more important than being the best. Despite her humongous ego, Gina will still help her friends, especially Jake, when they need her help

At her worst, Gina is narcissistic and dismissive of the other members of the Nine-Nine. Gina loves to brag about herself, because she thinks it can make her seem cooler to other people. She finds it difficult to accept responsibility for anything. She also alienates her friends with her constant “I’m better than you” attitude.

3s will often lie to those around them to try and hide their shortcomings or to seem better than they are. Gina constantly lies to those around her, and they are often really outlandish. Her lies are always based on hiding her true self and maintaining her ego.

Gina will never give up, and will always find the self-confidence to pick herself up after a failure, which is one of the 3’s greatest traits. For example, she still survives being hit by a bus, and comes back to work only weeks later.

Tri-type: 3w4 – 7w8 – 8w7

Some quotes to describe Gina’s motivations

“You should make me your campaign manager. I was born for politics. I have great hair, and I love lying.”

“Hi, Gina Linetti. The human form of the 100 emoji.”

“My mother cried on the day I was born because she knew she would never be better than me.”

“I would spend my $5,000 to buy backstage passes to Britney, and then I’d ask her one question: You think you’re a better dancer than me?”

“What? The only thing I’m not good at is modesty, because I’m great at it.”

“The English language cannot fully capture the depth and complexity of my thoughts, so I’m incorporating emoji into my speech to better express myself. Winky face.”

“If I die, turn my tweets into a book.”

“I feel like I’m the Paris of people.”

“Attention, skeezy nobodies! Tina Knowles, Beyonce’s mom-ager, has contacted me and wants to audition me tonight. I’ve transcended you now.”

Dead to Me: Jen Harding – Type 8w9

Jen is intense, direct and protective. She strives to protect her two sons and works hard to keep them away from anything bad. She takes on the role of protector and looks out for others by standing up against things that she disagrees with.

At her best, Jen is fiercely protective towards Judy, Charlie and Henry and begins to show them a more vulnerable side to her. She opens up more and doesn’t have to prove that she is strong as she can share her emotions and worries with them. At her worst, Jen becomes very reactive and aggressive. She will focus on her own feelings and dismissed the feelings of others as they are standing in the way of what she wants or needs.

Jen is dealing with a lot of trauma when the series begins and as a result a lot of her behaviours are in the lower levels of health and highlight her grief and coping mechanisms. Jen comes across as being very abrasive and blunt to others, often saying the first thing that is on her mind- despite the impact may have on their feelings.

Jen is very impulsive and will act first think later. She will use her gut instinct to assess a situation and immediately react based on what she is feeling. She finds it difficult trying to censor herself and even when having discussions with Charlie will lose her temper and be very reactive to what he is saying or doing.

Jen shows a softer side of herself when she begins to open up to Judy and explain some of her insecurities and worries. She is afraid to allow herself to be vulnerable and believes she needs to be strong for her family and to show others like Lorna that she is capable of standing on her own without Ted.

Jen has a wing 9 as she presents throughout the show as being less extraverted and fun-loving. It was difficult to determine her wing as she is unhappy and grieving which would make her appear more introverted, but from her characterisation she seems to have more of an emphasis on peace than fun.

Tri-type: 8w9 – 6w7 – 3w2

Some quotes to describe Jen’s motivations:

“Scars show that you went through something hard, and you survived. And it’s your story.”

“I don’t know where you’re getting this patriarchal sh*t from, but you are not the man of the house, you are a child.”

Judy: “Personally, I think your anger is understandable.”
Jen: “Well you haven’t been on the receiving end of it.”
Jen: “Thank you…. And also just for not saying and doing the same stupid shit that everybody says and does and just makes you feel more alone than you already are, you know? And for not being repulsed by my version of grief.”

“I am the woman of the house and I do the protecting.”

”Men called women nuts and crazy way too often just to undermine us.”